There is a big thing on the 'net these days. Has been for a couple of years now, maybe more. A different spin on the "what are your New Year's resolutions this year?"
The idea is that you take one word, and one word only, to be sort of your mantra or watch-word for the coming year. I generally shy away from big pronouncements or resolutions each New Year. I really stink at keeping to anything like that. I avoid setting myself up for failure wherever and whenever possible.
Yet, the idea of choosing one word and trying to come up with that one word has been on my mind all week. In my head, I have a whole laundry list of things I want to change. I won't bore you with them, as many of you probably have the same ones in your own head.
As I cleaned up "my side" of the basement yesterday so I could find my washer and dryer again, I was again thinking about this idea. Like a bolt of lightening, the word came to me: Training
What I like about this word is that it suits all kinds of goals and plans and changes I'd like to see this new year. So many of the other words that came to mind were so narrowly focused that it left out too much of what I want to accomplish.
Some obvious "training" that I'd like to do this year is with my horses. Izzy will be 4 this year and I want to get her pulling a cart this summer. The younger four will all be 3 and eligible for such training too, but that may be a bit much. Missy and Ethel need work on their show behaviors. And someone is going to be jumping and doing obstacle this year at the shows. Lucy is a natural choice for the obstacle because she is naturally curious and much less fearful than the average horse. The idea of taking 3 horse to a show though is a bit daunting. All the horses need worked in general, if nothing else but on their ground manner work. All need the excercise and stimulation of such training. And my latest EQUUS magazine has an article about what is the equivalent of dog agility training for horses. Without leads! That would be awesome.
The dogs could use some work too. In general, they behave pretty well. I think Casey and Sadie should work together. Sadie's Border Collie side is predominant in her mix of breeds and I think she could literally shine with some very basic work. Casey could use the distraction that doesn't involve some sort of screen!
What other things besides the actual training of our animals do I have in mind? Training my brain to look at my "world view" differently is one thing. I know that the way I view things on a day to day basis, and more importantly how I react to them, is a great cause of stress for me. I'd bet that a good 75% of my stress is self-induced. It's time to see how I can "re-train my brain" to make changes for the better.
There is more but I think I'll hold off adding anything more. Stay tuned!
And Happy New Year!